Most young people and girls live one day. One way or another, it is better to avoid these mistakes of youth, otherwise, in the "adult" life, you will not achieve what you dream about.
10. Do not save money
Few save money in their youth. Most justifies itself by the fact that the level of salary at this age often leaves much to be desired, but you want to live beautifully. Of course, it is difficult for a young man or girl to deny herself the purchase of a fashionable phone, beautiful clothes, going to a club or cafe. But youth will not last forever. Already, you need to think about your own home or other major purchase. Even if you do not have problems with the living space, it is still worth saving money. You should always have a certain amount for a rainy day. It is not known what will happen tomorrow; this money will help you out in a difficult situation. It is not necessary to postpone large amounts, the main thing is to do it regularly.
9. To think that education and talent are enough for success
You should not rely only on your abilities that nature has given you. Education also does not guarantee a successful career. Of course, without this it will be difficult to become a good specialist, but if you do not work, then even a Cambridge University diploma will not help you. Set yourself up to work a lot. While you are young, you can change your life. Try yourself in different areas, but do not pull. It is very important to quickly determine which direction you would like to develop and do your best for this. Be persistent, work hard and will certainly achieve your goal.
8. Surrender at the first sign of trouble
You never need to be afraid of difficulties, no matter whether you are 20 years old or 60. That's just the first time the problems seem bigger than they really are. The first dismissal, the first separation can be a turning point in the life of a young man or girl. They mourn their fate, scold themselves, although they could move on. Next time, most of them will set simpler goals. At least once do the opposite, calm down and think about how many problems you have to meet on your life path. You can become better, find another job and solve all your problems in your personal life. Let your failures become an incentive for self-improvement.
7. To think that everything is easy for everyone except you
Look less at other people. Yes, many of them are more successful, including your friends. And you are often haunted by the thought that everything around is easy. This is a fallacy; you do not know how other people live. In fact, they work hard, sacrifice weekends, holidays and personal life to become successful. Someone else's personal life, especially should not cause you a feeling of envy. Let your girlfriend receive flowers from her beloved every day, but you do not know what kind of relationship she has with a man. In general, do not have the habit of comparing your life with the life of others. You see only beautiful pictures, your self-esteem goes down, your desire to move forward disappears.
6. To believe that happiness and money are one and the same
Of course, becoming unhappy in poverty is unlikely to succeed. What happiness can there be if there is nothing to eat, or there is no money to pay for utility bills? But do not chase for big money. If you work at an unloved job only because of prestige and a high salary, you will not become happy. Choose a business for you, then you will be happy with your life, and making money will be much more pleasant for you.
5. Depend on the opinions of others
Never pay attention to other people's opinions. You have one life, live it the way you want, not your parents, sisters, brothers, husband or wife. Learn not to depend on other people's opinions, and you will see how your life will change. It will become easy for you, you will do what you want. You most likely have already made mistakes by submitting to the influence of others. We got the wrong profession because my mom wanted it so, broke up with my beloved, because dad said that he was not in your circle. Do not let other people influence your life.
4. To think that moving to a new place can solve all the problems.
When there are more and more problems every day, it seems there is one way out - to leave. But this way you will not rid yourself of all these problems at all. You won’t run away from yourself. Travel, live in other cities and countries, but remember that you will not find the meaning of life there. No need to run away from unhappy love, a broken career or a damaged reputation. In a new place, the same can await you.
3. Trying to please everyone
Do not try to please everyone. Of course, being a responsive person is very good, but not to the detriment of oneself. Do not linger after work to help your lazy colleague; don’t agree to take on a bunch of additional responsibilities for “thank you” from the boss. You must understand that you do not have to like everyone. And do not try to appease your enemies with flattering words, help, treats. Live as you feel comfortable. Think first of yourself and your loved ones.
2. To think that any friendship is forever
Of course, no one canceled youthful maximalism, and that is why many “yesterday's children” are so sensitive to feelings. Friends for them are not an empty phrase, they hope to communicate and support each other all their lives. They don’t even think about the fact that at any moment the friendship may end. This very often happens, but after such high expectations it is difficult to come to terms with harsh reality. Remember where your school friends are now? Most likely they were replaced by college friends, whom you now consider to be real friends. Then there will be work colleagues with whom you stop all communication after dismissal. If you have a good friend, value him, but do not hope that your friendship will last a lifetime.
1. To neglect health
Of course, in youth, health problems do not come to the fore. Young people and girls do not think about their bodies. They can afford alcohol and dancing until the morning, and in the morning they will feel quite tolerable. Do not get involved in alcohol and cigarettes, they will bring enormous harm to your body. Your diet also deserves close attention, eat correctly so that in the future you do not have problems with your stomach. Do a medical examination, at least occasionally take tests, visit specialists. No one is safe from unpleasant diseases, therefore it is better if they are discovered at the very beginning. Do not neglect your health, take it seriously.
Now you know what mistakes to avoid in youth. Do not commit them and remember that it is in youth that the foundation is laid for your future career and personal life.