When the relationship lasts a long time, the man and woman begin to relate to each other in a different way. To figure out how it differs from the average average will help a list of things that only the ideal husband agrees to do.
10. Consult with you
For women, this means a lot. If the husband is advised, she feels necessary and important for him. Women generally like to talk. It doesn’t matter on which topic and whether its advice is really useful. Of course you do not need to bring to the point of absurdity. When he asks you which gasoline is better to pour into the tank of his car, it means that it is completely up to you. He simply cannot solve a single problem on his own. The ideal husband will discuss with you the purchase of a new refrigerator, touch on financial issues and issues in raising children. He may seek advice in a difficult situation at work. But you must understand that he will not always listen to your advice. Perhaps you will come to a common decision, or maybe he will do as he sees fit.
9. Tells friends about your merits
Men, when meeting with friends, usually complain about their wives, as, in principle, women complain about their husbands. If your half, instead of stories about how you cut it, do not feed and do not love, extols your merits, then your husband is an exception to the rule. Any person, even the closest, will have flaws. But not everyone can notice not only flaws, but also advantages. Moreover, to share such things with friends. So, he is proud of you, sincerely rejoices at your successes.
8. Solves problems
The man has long been assigned the role of head of the family. It is accepted that he must solve all the problems of the category "build a house and kill a mammoth." Having completed the tasks, he will feel his importance. His thoughts will be something like this: “How is she without me? I am such a hero! So happy! I’ll go still over the mammoth. ” Exaggerated, but the principle is approximately the same. But so that your husband wants to solve problems, inspire him. Do not shift everything onto your shoulders, do not think that he will do something wrong again. Well, if you do not, keep silent. You will reproach, next time he will not do anything at all.
7. Helps with household chores
The husband allows you to relax, he washes the dishes and walks with the child, washes the floor and goes to the store. Everything is simple here. He helps you around the house, wants to make your life easier. Men do not like household chores. Some consider their performance "below their dignity." If your not from this number, appreciate it. Do not criticize him for a poorly washed stove or for things damaged by an iron. And then the man will lose his desire to help you in the future. He did it from the heart, tried. Praise him, and when he does not see, redo it.
6. Eats everything you cooked
It may seem strange to someone how food can be connected with an ideal husband. Only not to wives. If your partner eats everything you have prepared, there are two options. Either he madly loves you, or you cook deliciously. If you know that cooking is not your horse, but he is eating on both cheeks and says thank you, your chosen one is ready for everything for you. Even on a charred steak and salted salad. If you cook deliciously, it means that not only you were lucky, but also him. But some fastidies and delicious food are refused. The wife, who stood at the stove for three hours, will take this as an insult. Resentment and scandal can not be avoided. Therefore, a loving husband will not upset you, and at least he will try.
5. Always support
Weak sex needs support. When a wife wants to learn something new, change her job or hairstyle, husbands usually wave away: "Do as you want." And she so wanted support, approval. It is difficult for a woman to decide on a change. If your husband encourages you and supports you in all your endeavors, he is ideal. Still, try to live up to his expectations so that he does not have to support you again in case of failure. Be sure that if failure fails, it will become a real support for you. Separately, one can say about difficult situations: illness, loss of loved ones. Here, even the most callous man is able to turn his shoulder.
4. Sometimes he cooks himself
If your man cooks himself, perhaps you do not feed him at all. Or you just have a perfect husband. An ordinary man will demonstrate his culinary skills at the beginning of a relationship. After the wedding, many are not able to cook even omelet. But the perfect cook. Men usually cook well, so you are unlikely to have to choke on an inedible dinner. After him, be sure to praise her husband, thank him for his work. Rest assured, he will cook the next dinner on his own again.
3. He is ready to grow and develop.
The husband is always striving for the best. He constantly learns something, gives all the best at work. He is trying for you. He wants a successful man next to you with whom you can talk on topics of interest to you. Some women themselves kill in husbands any desire for development. They are offended that they spend little time at home, go to some courses and seminars. Give your husband freedom. For men, social life is very important. He cannot concentrate only on you and on the house. Remember, he is zealous for you.
2. Often makes compliments
Compliments are loved by all women, without exception. But the longer the relationship, the less she hears pleasant words. The perfect husband is not like that. He is always attentive to his wife, he will notice the slightest changes in her appearance, appreciate them. It is very good quality for men and useful for family life. A woman is pleased to hear words of praise, especially since she is trying for her partner. He does not need to spare the beautiful words for his chosen one. She will be pleased, the relationship between them will sparkle with bright colors. If your husband is one of those, you are a happy woman.
1. Calls during work
If your husband calls during the working day to find out how you are doing, you are in luck. He is worried, wants to hear your voice, is bored. Now more and more people spend at work. Less and less is being given to relatives and friends. Every woman needs attention, a manifestation of love and affection. But not every man can give it. Especially if she is sitting at home with a small child, a short conversation will be very pleasant for her. If he remembered you at the height of the working day and took a moment, then he really loves you, thinks about you.
If your husband has at least several qualities from this list, he is definitely perfect. But remember, a man needs to be motivated. Encourage him, praise, inspire, love. Then he will become the best for you, will make every possible effort. If he does not do any of this, do not rush to part with him. In men, thinking is completely different and ideas about the ideal, too. One is enough to hint, the other to say bluntly about what you need for happiness. Perhaps after a while you will find next to that very ideal husband whom you dreamed about.